Not with your analysis of what happened, just with your conclusion.
First, the whole region of the Caucasus and the Blah-kans is a festering hellhole of ethnic squabbles and fights over what happened 300-500 years ago. Only the fucking Arabs could could match this level of stupidity...but I digress.
Georgia itself has been a part of Russia for a VERY long time, and is strategically located on the black sea. One look at a map should tell you why the Russians were loathe to let it go in the first place when the USSR broke up. (Remember your history, this was not a happy "go-your-own-way" kind of thing). In fact, a lot of us were wondering at the time if Russia would pull a full-on Chechnya there.
As to the Ossetia region, again, look at a map. It's a great big chunk out of the border region of Georgia, who rightfully is very concerned about defensible borders. The South Ossetia region is not just a chunk, but it's also on the wrong side of the Caucasus mountains (for the Georgians) which is a natural defensive barrier against the Russians. (Not that Georgia is going to hold off the Ruskies there, but they could sure as hell make it painful to get across those mountain passes)
Yes, the Georgians took one hell of a risk trying to take back the region. What they were hoping for was a fait accompli, after which they would try to get a better deal then they had, as well as a nice chunk of the territory BACK.
Who was right? Depends on your point of view I guess. The Russians had made the place pretty much a garrison state, and have been doing everything they could to make life tough on the Georgians since it broke away. -The idea of Russian "peace-keepers" is Orwellian in its self-contradiction.
Resurgent Russian ultra-nationalism fueled by oil money and rife with rule of Kleptocrats and former KGB types should make everyone nervous.
Add in the piplines for a little extra tension all around and you have one hell of a mess on your hands no matter who's "side" you take.
I don't have an answer for any of this. It's a hell of a situation, and tbh, I'm not sure that in the long run, everyone wouldn't be better served by the larger states gobbling up the tiny ethnic shitholes and giving them semi-autonomy.
Georgia is large enough that it's a plausible nation-state, but to be an independent nation as anything other than Russia's bitch probably isn't likely in the long-run. I'm reminded of the U.S and Mexico's relationship, although the Russians have in my mind, a far more reasonable claim to make Geogia a client state than the U.S. did or does with Mexico.
Independence for a lot of these places just guarantees their people perenial poverty, since they don't have the resources to do anything but be poor, shitty places to live.
But it seems every fucking tribe in the region of more than 10,000 people just HAS to be independent, and it's hard to justify denying self-determination to anyone, no matter how stupid the reasons for it.
I tend toward the Russians about Georgia for two reasons: the first is geographic, second is the idea of Georgia trying to get NATO membership. If you don't understand why that freaked out the Russians, you don't have a clue about the situation.
Hell of a mess. As to who was "right" in the latest scuffle...I think it's hard to make a call. Neither party has clean hands.
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